My house...
I do remember the first few weeks/days where I had my house just the way I wanted it. Empty of anyone except for me. Those were the good days. Yep, just me. Nice.
It sucks getting what you want and then losing it not long after. That's what I get for being nice, I suppose. Figures. I need to learn to more mean/assertive.
Don't worry -- a solution can be found! All it takes is enough time and enough money.
Hey, you are helping family. Just hang in there.